# Proposing A Date

> Suggests a concrete, low-pressure date — specific activity, day, and place — matched to the vibe and intent, with an easy yes and a graceful out.

- **Type:** Skill
- **Install:** `agentstack add skill-sumitaich1998-opendate-proposing-a-date`
- **Verified:** Yes — security-reviewed for prompt injection and unsafe behavior
- **Seller:** [sumitaich1998](https://agentstack.voostack.com/s/sumitaich1998)
- **Installs:** 0
- **Category:** [AI & ML](https://agentstack.voostack.com/c/ai-and-ml)
- **Latest version:** 0.1.0
- **License:** MIT
- **Upstream author:** [sumitaich1998](https://github.com/sumitaich1998)
- **Source:** https://github.com/sumitaich1998/OpenDate/tree/main/src/opendate/skills/registry/proposing-a-date

## Install

```sh
agentstack add skill-sumitaich1998-opendate-proposing-a-date
```

Requires the [AgentStack CLI](https://agentstack.voostack.com/docs/cli). Works with Claude Code, Cursor, and any MCP-compatible agent.

## About

# Proposing a date

Conversations that never become dates are a waste of good chemistry. When the
rapport is there, the kindest and most attractive move is to propose something
concrete. Confidence here is just clarity plus respect.

## When to propose

Green lights (you usually want two or more):
- Sustained two-sided energy over several exchanges.
- They're asking you questions, not just answering.
- A shared interest you can build a plan around has surfaced.
- Logistics feel natural (you're in compatible places/times).

If it's still one-sided or thin, go back to `rapport-building` first.

## The formula

**Callback + specific plan + easy yes + soft out.**

> "This taco debate clearly can't be settled over text — there's a great little
>  al pastor place on 5th. Drinks or tacos this week? Thursday's good for me, but
>  no worries if your week's slammed."

1. **Callback** to something you bonded over so the plan feels inevitable, not
   random.
2. **Be specific** — name an activity and a rough day. Specific is confident;
   "we should hang sometime" dies in the drafts folder.
3. **Make the yes easy** — offer a concrete option but stay flexible on details.
4. **Give a graceful out** — "no worries if not" removes pressure and makes a
   yes mean more.

## Calibrate to intent

- **Casual:** something fun and low-key, soon (drinks, a walk, a show).
- **Dating:** a relaxed first date with room to talk (coffee, tacos, a market).
- **Long-term:** still keep first dates light and low-pressure — depth comes in
  person; don't propose anything heavy or expensive.

## Rules

- **One clear ask.** Don't bury it in three hedges.
- **Pick a public, low-pressure setting** for a first meet — it's safer and
  easier to say yes to.
- **Never pressure.** If they hesitate or defer, accept it warmly and leave the
  door open. A "maybe later" is not a "convince me."

## Do / Don't

- Do propose a specific activity + rough time.
- Do keep first dates short and public.
- Don't ask "what are you up to this weekend?" and hope — make the ask.
- Don't negotiate against a soft no.

## Output

A single, warm, specific invitation with an easy yes and a genuine out.

## Source & license

This open-source skill is cataloged on AgentStack and links to its original source — we do not rehost the code.

- **Author:** [sumitaich1998](https://github.com/sumitaich1998)
- **Source:** [sumitaich1998/OpenDate](https://github.com/sumitaich1998/OpenDate)
- **License:** MIT

Install and usage instructions live in the source repository linked above.

## Pricing

- **Free** — Free

## Security capabilities

Automated source analysis of v0.1.0 — what this tool can access:

- **Network access:** no
- **Filesystem access:** no
- **Shell / process execution:** no
- **Environment & secrets:** no
- **Dynamic code execution:** no

*"Yes" means the capability is present in the source — more access means more to trust, not that it is unsafe.*


## Versions

- **0.1.0** — security scan: passed — Imported from the upstream source.

## Links

- Listing page: https://agentstack.voostack.com/l/skill-sumitaich1998-opendate-proposing-a-date
- Seller: https://agentstack.voostack.com/s/sumitaich1998
- Browse the marketplace: https://agentstack.voostack.com/browse

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